Everyone wants to touch the baby, especially during the pregnancy but no one every asks. If you haven't noticed yet, the minute you start to show a tummy everyone else will gladly show you. The tummy becomes this magnet for hands and everyone wants to handle it. It doesn’t matter if you are walking around in a store, sitting down in a restaurant or walking on your own street, someone is bound to start rubbing all over it.
Here are some ways you can't keep people's hands off the Belly!
- Tell them NO TOUCH ~ good practice for the toddler years. :) If you are worried about offending people tell them you're shy.
- Buy a t-shirt that says "Don't Touch the Belly" or "Touch the Belly at Your Own Risk"
- If someone does cop a touch ~ look at them and ask "what are you doing? I'm not pregnant just a little bloated!" The look should be priceless
- Motion like you are going to rub the other person's belly back.
If nothing else seems to work and you’ve been polite in letting people know that your belly is off limits, feel free to sick your husband on them or start swatting. You’ve already given fair warning. Don’t feel bad if you smack a person that lifts up your shirt in broad daylight either. This is a normal reaction and people should really think twice before doing it. They wouldn’t do it if you weren’t pregnant.
Jackie Lee
Natural Pregnancy and Childbirth